...the potential for a greatly improved experience is always born from a unwanted experience; and, in time (whenever resistance ceases), the improvement will come
This little excerpt is from the book The Vortex by Esther and Jerry Hicks. It is something that I have just learned, again. It is true, when you go through a bad or difficult situation, as soon as you cease resisting what is happening, everything becomes easier.
With relationships, as soon as you completely let go of the person/situation, something better comes along. I know I have trouble letting go, I tend to instill a lot of beliefs about a person which makes letting them go almost scary. It's like I'm giving up the chance for whatever it is to be in my life. What I need to remember is that, that chance will come again, if I stop resisting letting it happen!
Get out of my own way, why don't I?